Sample Wedding Vows
Your wedding
vows are a personal commitment to each other to bring yourselves
together as one. Below you will find a sample renewal or commitment
ceremony, which you can use as a guide to write your own or modify
for your personal vows and beliefs.
Welcome
to the Union of (Groom) and (Bride)
Minister
or Shaman: The focus of my greeting
will be on encouraging their continued love and support.
Please
join hands (Groom and Bride)
(GROOM),
do you take (BRIDE)
whom you now hold by the hand to be your lawful
wedded wife?
I do
Do you promise
to love and cherish her, in sickness and in health, for richer for
poorer,
for better for worse, and forsaking all others, keeping yourself
only unto her, for so long
as you both shall live?
I do
(BRIDE),
do you take (GROOM)
, whom you now hold by the hand to be your
lawful
wedded husband?
I do
Do you promise
to love and cherish him, in sickness and in health, for richer for
poorer,
for better for worse, and forsaking all others, keeping yourself
only unto him, for so long as you both shall live?
I do
Do you mutually
promise in the presence of friends that you will at all times and
in all circumstances, conduct yourselves toward one another as becomes
Husband and Wife?
We do
Do you mutually
promise in front of your families and friends that you will love,
cherish
and respect one another throughout the years? We do
(GROOM),
do you pledge to love (BRIDE)
throughout your years together and to be
honest,
faithful, and kind to her.
I do
Do you pledge
to offer her the same happiness she gives to you, to react to her
as only you can, and to respect her?
I do
(BRIDE), do you pledge to love (GROOM)
, throughout your years together and to be honest,
faithful, and kind to him. I do
Do you pledge
to offer him the same happiness he gives to you, to react to him
as only you can, and to respect him?
I do
(Repeated
by groom in phrases)
With all
my heart, I take you to be my wife.
I will love
you through the good and the bad,
through
the joy and the sorrow.
I will try
to be understanding,
and to trust
in you completely.
I will make
you a part of me,
and, in
turn, I become a part of you.
Together
we will face all of life's experiences
and share
one another's dreams and goals.
We will
be equal partners
in an open,
honest relationship
throughout
the years.
(Repeated
by bride in phrases)
With all
my heart, I take you to be my husband.
I will love
you through the good and the bad,
through
the joy and the sorrow.
I will try
to be understanding,
and to trust
in you completely.
I will make
you a part of me,
and, in
turn, I become a part of you.
Together
we will face all of life's experiences
and share
one another's dreams and goals.
We will
be equal partners
in an open,
honest relationship
throughout
the years.
(Repeated
by Groom in phrases)
(Bride)
it is my intention to be your best friend,
to respect
and support you,
to be patient
with you,
to work
together with you
to achieve
those things that are important to us,
to accept
you unconditionally,
and to share
life with you throughout the years.
(Repeated
by Bride in phrases)
(Groom)
it is my intention to be your best friend,
to respect
and support you,
to be patient
with you,
to work
together with you
to achieve
those things that are important to us,
to accept
you unconditionally,
and to share
life with you throughout the years.
(Repeated
by Groom in phrases)
I pledge
to you with all my heart and being
to love
and support you in all ways,
to my utmost
capabilities,
for the
rest of our lives.
(Repeated
by Bride in phrases)
I pledge
to you with all my heart and being
to love
and support you in all ways,
to my utmost
capabilities,
for the
rest of our lives.
Rings:
With
these symbolic rings, you can pledge your personal vows or promise
the following.
"With
this ring I pledge my love and commitment."
(Bride)
repeats the same vows)
Pronouncement
After the Marriage Vows
As witnessed
by your friends and families,
I ask you to light the unity candle,
symbolizing your union as one.
Kiss:
"You
may now seal your vows with a kiss."
Presentation:
(optional)
"I
now have the pleasure of presenting to you the union of (Groom)
and (Bride), husband and wife."
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